How do I know if he loves me? When he wants me to be his gf he make time for me and send me morning and night messages and done everything to melt my heart. Now I am his gf and he don't treat me that way now.

He made efforts to woo you, made you friend from a stranger, took to the next level by making you his gf….

Think over it……whetehr you want to step in or step out. because if you want to remain you have to step in and make efforts to get it to next level….For everything you cannot blame him.

what efforts have YOU made….?? it seems you expect ONLY him to add the spices to the relationship, without you having the need to do anything.

Why do Americans and foreigners alike describe the USA as prudish? Why do I see nothing prudish about the USA society? USA feels like one of the loosest countries although Americans claim to be very reserved.

In any relationship if there will be one sided expectations, sooner or later that will break. and with you it seems that rather than being exciting for him, you have been excited for the relations ship hangover (yeah..yeah I am also in a relationship now) kind-offs, to get it validated or to show off to your friends, parents, society etc.

Kindly try to put in your efforts and if you get tired imagine how much efforts he has taken to bring it to this level. Have you ever went on outing with him, kissed him, enjoyed his company, have sex with him, informed him what he should do to give you an orgazm while you are getting intimate with him or you ever tried to make him reach to climax……or is this love game STILL a puzzle for him?? make it more open ended & talkative/communicative

Correct your expectations sweetheart!!!

Have you ever witnessed a remote beach show where hundreds of turtles crawling to the water?

Stop behaving like cinderalla? you better come out of that relationship.